My Wordsmith Vantage Point

Just a few words of dating wisdom for any guys out there needing it.


James Michael Sama

When writing articles about chivalry, romance, and relationships – one tends to learn quite a bit about people from comments, emails, and messages.

One of the things that I have learned is a prominent issue, is the male race’s avoidance of kindness for fear of being seen as “just a friend.”

I’ve been there, gentlemen – and it’s not fun. I can relate.


But, here’s the thing: You can still be a good guy, and be taken seriously by women. The trick is to not be seen as a pushover, otherwise known as “the nice guy.” This brings about another interesting term, “the friend zone.”

Many claim it’s a mythical area that doesn’t exist, but those people have never been in a situation where a woman has permanently defined them in her mind as a sort-of-kind-of brother figure. It happens, and it sucks.

So, how do you project that you’re…

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Comments on: "5 Ways To Stay Out Of The Friend Zone" (2)

  1. Sarah said:

    Anita, this was a good post (even for us ladies to read)!

    • Thx Sarah! I can’t take credit for this post. I borrowed it from James Michael Sama. He’s got tons of good advice for the guys (& even the ladies).

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